A New Normal
A New Normal
Rev Barry Kerner
We live in a small rural community but our home is located at the corner of a busy intersection in the village. Early morning and afternoon rush hours saw cars lined up on our side road. As they inched their way to the stop sign on the corner to make their turn onto Main Street the revving engines, squeaking brakes, and the cacophony of music and radio announcers emanating from different cars added to the neighborhood noise. With the stay at home orders resulting from the Coronavirus pandemic the traffic noise has all but stopped. Although we had grown somewhat accustomed to the morning and afternoon din we relish the relative peace and quiet that’s come to our intersection. It has become a quiet time.
But at times the silence can be deafening. The lack of noise shouts that our way of doing things may be passe and that the world in which we live is moving towards a new normal. We look forward now to activities that we once considered chores. Life is a bit slower as we stretch our tasks to fill the day. Our local schools, business and churches have moved their activities online. Words and phrases such as Zoom meetings, Covid-19, and social distancing have made their way into our everyday conversations. We’re finding that our family spends a lot more time every evening around the dinner table and conversation has increased greatly. Our outlet of connecting daily or weekly with classmates, coworkers and church members has all but dried up. We all spend a lot more time using social media but it pales in comparison to a face to face connection. I know our world is changing when my pre-teen daughter tells us she can’t wait to get back to school.
At times this “new normal” of isolation might feel unproductive, confining, and uncomfortable, But, God is not wasteful. Even in the midst of uncertainty and fear, there are opportunities for each of us to grow. God has a perfect plan and is able to accomplish great things no matter the situation or circumstance.
Being forced to slow down has a way of revealing things about our hearts. When we are without the crutch of normal routines, we discover what we lean on. Without the distracting hustle and bustle of everyday life, many of us are—for the first time in a long time—left with nothing but our thoughts.
When so much in our lives is run on autopilot, going from one routine to the next, we are rarely forced to examine the true state of our heart. When the shelter of routine is disrupted, the inner state of our hearts is laid bare. How does God want to transform us in this time?
Philippians 4:6-7 tells us, “Do not be anxious about anything, but in every situation, by prayer and petition, with thanksgiving, present your requests to God. And the peace of God, which transcends all understanding, will guard your hearts and your minds in Christ Jesus.”
C.S. Lewis said, “I pray because I can’t help myself. I pray because I’m helpless. I pray because the need flows out of me all the time, waking and sleeping. It doesn’t change God. It changes me.”
We’ve been forced to explore new approaches to stay connected and to care for others. Church directories have been brought out of storage, dusted off and hopefully nobody is being left behind. Churches, communities and individuals are reaching out to serve high risk folks to make sure they are cared for and safe. Previously disconnected people are now connecting.
Our circumstance has made us realize the importance of Sunday morning. Or perhaps more to the point, we’re realizing that Sunday morning should not be as important as we’ve made it. What’s most important is the overall discipleship focus of our churches. Who are we when Sunday is taken away and we’re prevented from meeting face to face to worship, fellowship and encourage one another? Jesus didn’t say go and produce great Sunday services. He said go and make disciples. Although some discipleship comes through Sunday services, now that they have been halted, how well are we actually teaching biblical precepts, while modeling and guiding others toward living righteously as followers of Jesus Christ? We must put more attention and time into helping people follow Jesus in small groups and in one-on-one relationships.
We’ve been forced out of our four walls to truly understand that the church is us and not our location. Facilities certainly make things easier, but God didn’t promise easy. James, Peter, Paul and a host of other Biblical writers let us know we will have trials and tough times. We’re in the midst of one now. We need to get our belief about church straight first. We, the people, are the church. We need to discover this anew. Maybe we’ve been addicted to things we thought we could count on and like an addict need some intervention. Maybe COVID-19 is helping us break this cycle of those parts of “church” that we are wrongly spending too much time, effort and resources on. Maybe God is using this time to bring clarity to what it means to be a church.
In John 17 Jesus prayed that His disciples and others would become as one. At this time we’re all in this TOGETHER. I believe we’re experiencing and living the result of Jesus’ prayer in this moment. More than ever, we’ve been forced to see what is real, what is most important, and what church and life should be about.
Jesus prayed for us, “I pray that they will all be one…so that the world will believe [in me].” Even in these uncertain times God has given us a task- our unity is to be productive in reaching and disciplining others for Him.
I don’t know if this season will be like a passing storm, drag on like a cold, bleak winter or turn into an ice age. I do know that we can’t just return to normal. Maybe normal wasn’t good as we thought it to be. I believe we need a new normal and God is shaping that among us in this moment of isolation.
My prayer is that even while we may be physically distant, you will be experiencing TOGETHER greater than ever before. And I know that TOGETHER will be even sweeter when we can physically connect face to face again. In that, I pray that God would give us all a quiet time to do some soul searching. What needs to stay the same? What needs to change? What do we need to hold on to? What do we need to let go?
As we approach Holy Week and Easter, may the reality of Jesus’ resurrection power and renewing work be deeply known in you and shown through you. We continue to keep you and our church in prayer. Grace, health, and peace, to you all dear friends.